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I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it.
I felt myself blaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem.
or the bland and disappointing taste of their "friendship”." "The single behavior that shoots down more potential relationships and is completely under your control is .... Dare to live your life on your own terms, and you’ll feel a sense of liberation and Alpha Masculinity that will open up a new world to you." "What I advise is that you should never rely , ONLY, on memorized routines.
coming on to a woman too strong." "Guys are trying to be “easy going” and cool, but they’re actually being perceived as weak-kneed little girls." "The great thing about taking initiative is that by doing this, you actually demonstrate two other POWERFUL traits that draw women in like moths to a flame: Ambition and Power." "SHOCK someone… That’s when you’re fake, and women won’t respond to it.
Carlos, thank you for agreeing to do this interview with me and now could you please tell a little about your history with women, and your background.
Carlos: I grew up in the Northeast, in Upstate New York.
And, on the next page, I want to explain one of the most painful experiences a guy can go through when approaching women - and how it can be Carlos Xuma - One question I'm asked quite a bit is how to find dating advice for men that is both practical and useful.Carlos believes that many of the problems that men experience in dating are due to the socialization they undergo from a young age in which they are taught to suppress their natural masculine tendencies.In his teachings he puts the focus on self-confidence which he believes is built upon self-esteem (how worthy a man feels he his), self-image (how he can imagine himself behaving and acting) and self-confidence (how sure he about his world and his abilities).I just kept being self-interested and treated women like *I* was the prize. Now get naked.” Still, the seeds of my setback to a “Nice Guy” were planted in my early twenties when I started reading a TON of self-help literature.In a nutshell, my attitude was this: “Oh, you’re going to sleep with me. I started with the usual Anthony Robbins material, Wayne Dyer, Napoleon Hill, etc., which were fantastic for my entrepreneurial spirit and desire to grow and achieve.
A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis.