To make him think, you need to pull him out of his comfort zone. Goodness is essential, but allowing yourself to be as mysterious and alluring like a vampire will go a long way. Everyone’s heard these same lines before, but instead of being a cliché, you can get his answers by asking different kinds of questions. Psychological studies have reinforced previous research showing that narcissists are more popular than others . However, a dash of narcissism makes a good impression short-term.But girls are an entirely different kind of animal.Women aren't a simple stroll in the park; women are an uphill climb in dangerous weather conditions. Also, lesbian culture, by nature, is extremely elusive.As a result, straight guys often gab with us about the stuff girls do that cost them a call back.This article may be in violation of bro code, but I’m going to share some intel anyway. According to a University of Maryland study, women utter more words per day—about 20,000 to men’s 7,000. For over a decade, I’ve had the privilege of playing the role of gay best friend to many intelligent, funny and gorgeous women throughout my career as a practicing homosexual.Gay guys and straight gals have a special bond due to our common interests (e.g.
All you have to do is bat a lash, act entirely disinterested, cold and bitchy, and boys will fall at your feet.Having fixed ideas of what you want – which usually boil down to looks and little else – could be standing in your way of meeting some great guys.It’s time to think outside the box, look past the beards or muscles, and take chances.Be positive Many guys are very clear in their dating profiles – almost rudely so – about what they don’t want or like.Not only is this far too prescriptive, you also run the risk of coming across as overly negative.
While the common dating ‘rules’ – not that I believe in rules – can apply to anybody, there are perhaps a few things we, as gay guys, need to pay a little more attention to.